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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]To answer the original question…….YOU DON’T! You move the heck on! For your sanity’s sake.[/quote] This is THE bottom line. They relegated themselves to the sidelines of life. Leave them there. Create your boundaries. Don’t bail them out. Don’t let them parentify the kids, especially daughters. Get therapy for the kids and yourself how to cope, set boundaries, and never rely on the ASD parent or spouse for anything. Set up with will and POA accordingly. They will never advocate for you or the children, they will freeze and be overwhelmed and continue to loathe talking or interacting with actual people. Unless about their safe space, lecturing about work or school matter. They don’t mean what they say, and they rarely do what they say. Divorce when t strong and ready. [/quote] PP can you talk a little more about what you mean by parentify the children? Do you have examples of what this looked like?[/quote]
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