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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think this whole thread is a marketing scheme by Aarong to drive traffic to their website. [/quote]

Op here. It's not but because no one takes us out I have grown fond of Aarong. There are very few places you can use a credit card here for clothes shopping. Also in the US, I don't go shopping for the kid's traditional clothing usually due to distance and the cost is a lot higher. I was drawn to his culture because of the dresses but now that I am here I have very few opportunities to explore some of these things. On the last trip, we didn't go clothes shopping until almost the end of the trip and it was rushed. A lot of his family members came and they were following me around saying the items at Aarong were so expensive. Naturally, this made me feel a little guilty for shopping but it was the only opportunity presented to me. I feel I have to beg to go out shopping. It's the only thing we can do around here. There aren't museums close by and they think restaurants will make me sick. I have also been asking DH to help find a doctor to look at my toe and he's not helping much. I can't use Google and contact the doctors here. I tried and no answer. I think they do a lot of same-day visits. People just show up and wait. 
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Op here. Also, Aarong has fixed prices. We did go to Zum Zum Tower in Dhaka and most places had price tags. I think sometimes Dh is kind of foreign here and doesn't know much because it has changed. I was the one who introduced him to supermarkets in Dhaka. He was telling me it's a new concept. Bottom line I feel he's being selfish. Because he doesn't want to go out shopping or out to the chicken farm we usually can't go. He has been taking long naps. I told him today I was bored out of my mind and he needed to take charge more and help me feel more supported. There is a padlock and all around his property. I can't get out if I try. He should be taking the initiative to make the trip at least semi-fun. My stomach has also been feeling bad for the last two days maybe due to stress. I did try dal and rice earlier today and my MIL was very happy. Since I got so sick last time I was being super careful. I was sick in Bangladesh for over a week and then another three weeks when we returned. The fever kept coming back even with antibiotics. Our hospital bill in the US was also super expensive but luckily insurance kicked in right on time as dh began a new job when we came back.

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