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[quote=Anonymous]This marriage is definitely on the express train to divorce.  This isn’t just about the dividing up the childcare, there are a lot of other underlying resentments and issues coming through.

I was team OP’s husband when she wrote the initial post because she sounds so controlling and inflexible.  The 30 or so pages of this thread has revealed that there’s so much to the story.  She has lost respect for the man she married and she is resentful of his laziness and expectations that half-*ss work is good enough.  Once she recognized that he values his time as more important than hers (like not finishing a simple task such as putting away the kitchen towels) it’s the beginning of the end.

OP I divorced mine.  I had one of those too.  I think subconsciously he realized if he didn’t finish a task I would, so he would increasingly leave things for me to finish up and over the years would contribute less and less.  When it got to the point that I had lost all respect for him and frankly didn’t need him around for anything I got divorced.  Since I was doing everything anyway I only noticed his absence in less laundry and less mess around the house.  Once the spouse becomes like a child it’s time to move on.  [/quote]

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