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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She can go back to work full time but Op has to promise to take on the role of the default parent while his wife establishes herself in her career. That might take a year or more.

Do you understand what it means to be the default parent, Op?

It means being the parent who stays at home when the kids are sick or off of school for a holiday or snow day.  It means being the parent who takes the kids to doctor and dental appointments.  It means being the parent who goes to teacher conferences and volunteers to chaperone field trips.  It also means being on duty while your wife goes away for a week or more at a time on business trips - sometimes to really fun locations (Vegas, Orlando, San Diego, Boston, NYC) - while your stuck at home working FT, getting kids to/from school, doing laundry, helping with homework, making dinner....

Do that for a year and then come back to tell us how it went.  Good luck!

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What in the hell do families do if both parents work?  I mean, is it even possible to function?[/quote]

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