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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband made it known early in our relationship he wants to have sex everyday. I don't have a particularly high sex drive and felt 2 times a week is more than sufficient. However, we compromised and settled on a little more than every other day. Sometimes it's everyday. Sometimes we'll take 2 nights off.

We have 3 kids and both work FT and are driving kids all over northern Virginia and Maryland all week long for sports and activities and parties. It's absolutely ridiculous to say you can't make time for sex. Can't isn't the same as not wanting to.

To be fair, he pulls his weight around the house, [b]to make sure we can be done putting the kids down and cleaning the house so we can have sex. [/b]I don't think of this as a turn on though. He's just doing what he should be and that in turn helps fulfill his needs.

If I was up until midnight cleaning and handling the kids and he was sitting around watching TV, being lazy and otherwise disconnected from being a father and partner, that issue isn't sex. And I don't think I've read anywhere on here that women need to just spread their legs for a husband who's being a POS and failing at basic responsibilities.

Just take one for the team every now and then. Your marriage will thank you. [/quote]

Why not leave the dish s and the dust and f**k first?[/quote]

We both are kind of anal about not going to bed with it dirty and starting the day with a clean house. And we like to lay in bed after sex. He's up later than me, so he watches TV in bed and I go to sleep. Who wants to have sex then go downstairs and clean the kitchen? I'm too lazy after anywhere from 30-60 minutes of sex. The most I'll do is throw in a load of laundry.

We've been known to have a quickie on the couch (I am overly paranoid about one of the children walking downstairs and being scarred for life), but, that's like 10 minutes and we're already downstairs and at least partially clothed. It's easier to muster up the energy to finish cleaning when that happens.[/quote]

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