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[quote=Anonymous]There is an incel in my family, he's 26.  I 100% blame it on his parents' treating him like he was the most perfect kid and deserved everything in life.   From a young age, he had social issues with school and in his activities.  It was ALWAYS everyone else's fault.  He would lie to his parents about what happened and when confronted about it, would claim that he would never lie to them.   He pretty much became isolated by high school because no one wanted to be friends with him or around him, and instead of his parents finally addressing that he may be contributing to things, they talked badly about everyone else.

I'm a little more than 10 years older than him and finally had to separate myself from that part of the family when he was in college.   The way his parents (ironically especially his mom) encouraged his anti social behavior and his negative thoughts towards women (she actually would agree with him that the girls he was interested in were nothing but trashy s*uts because they had no interest in him).  It was like watching a slow motion train wreck as he morphed into this angry incel who felt things were owed to him.   If I saw on the news that he had been violent towards a woman, I would not at all be surprised.  [/quote]

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