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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow. DW here, and I have 3 kids under 4. The amount of excuses being made for the wife here blows me away. I get that having young kids is so exhausting. I have a 3.5 year old, a 2 year old and a 7 month old. I totally understand. But sometimes, ladies, you have to "take one for the team." Are there times I would rather go to sleep? Sure. But it's important enough to me that my husband is satisfied (after all, he goes out of his way to "satisfy" me in other, non sexual ways) that I am perfectly fine with going for it even if I'm not in the mood sometimes. You know what always happens? I GET in the mood. I have fun. And we have an incredible, hot, sex life. Even with 3 little kids. Sex is important to men. That's how it is, and there's nothing wrong with it. [/quote]

Totally agree ... But my problem is that it is very difficult for me to unwind enough to get in the mood right now on a regular basis ... It is not that I don't have desire, but I am just too stressed and tired to really feel it, you know? And my sleep really is on such a thin margin that [b]missing an hour[/b] actually could have serious repercussions.[/quote]

So make it a quickie.  Dh has a higher sex drive, though I don't consider myself LD.  We probably average 2x per week, depending on work and travel schedules.  Nothing gets my husband hotter than when I initiate.  Sometimes it's late, I'm tired, haven't shaved, could list excuse after excuse.  Times like that, I really have to force myself to initiate, and I never regret it, especially if it's been a few days.  I know the positions (and toys) that can speed up the process for me and after 10+ years together, I know how to get him off quickly.  10-15 minutes and we're both happy and sated.  He's thrilled that I've surprised him with sex and I'm love that I can get him turned on so quickly after 2 kids and nearly 10 years of marriage.  Sometimes a quick fuck is all it takes.  Sure, foreplay and romance are wonderful, as is taking care of needs outside of the bedroom, but, IMHO sex should be a priority.  [/quote]

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