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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]At 25 it grossed me out to even be asked out by older men[/quote]

Yes, yakis! I remember thinking they looked so old! Men are just full of themselves, and have no realistic perception of their looks. The absolute maximum age difference for me back in my 20s where  a man still appeared hot was 11-13 years gap. [/quote]

Same. In my twenties, men over thirty just seemed old to me, and I wouldn't even chat with them in a flirtatious matter.  40-somethings seemed like grandpas to me, and no one wants to sleep with a grandpa.  The only person I knew in my twenties who dated someone older was effectively a sugar baby and was in it for the money, and there was a lot of it flowing her way. [/quote]

Yea I remember being 21 and a 35 year old in a class abroad hit on me. I thought he was old… not dateable.[/quote]

Women have a tendency to overvalue their value[/quote]

Woman here.  I completely agree.  There are some women who only talk about money.  Men aren't stupid, they stay far away - is it any wonder?  How would you feel if someone was with you because you are am lawyer (for example) and they expect you to bring home a lot of money, so that you can go out and blow it? To keep up with the Joneses? Hell no.

What do these women looking for money bring to the table?  I see the same posts every week.  These women are too stupid to feel shame.  Rich men are looking for young women, who are not with them for their paycheck.[/quote]

Haha - why do  you think a young woman would be with rich old man ? Rich men are looking for youth as it’s a value added just like women look for men who can provide. It’s important if a woman wants kids [/quote]

Right, but OP is asking specifically about men 45+ on OLD who are "broke"  - men who are 45+ with money obviously do not want just anyone (and don't want OP).  Which is fine, but OP acts surprised about the situation.

There are money hungry young women, just as there are money hungry old women.  Which one do you think the rich guy is going to pick?  [/quote]

PP here. It sounds like we agree. [/quote]

For 98% men over age 45 we are talking about rather average corporate income. They end up finding a woman  their age or slightly younger who brings something yo table. Absolutely all men I dated told me that they look for independent woman who seeks an equal partner. 
Yes maybe those making over a million/year would date much younger - but please don’t lie to yourself why she’s with you [/quote]

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