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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There are so many variables, you really just need to do what is right for your individual kid. Our first was just before the VA cutoff of 9/30 (we live in VA). We decided to redshirt. Very strong academically, but socially and verbally, there was mild concern on our part. Fast forward, he is now at a private school in MD, where the cutoff is 9/1, so he is no longer technically even considered a red-shirt. Either way, we are very happy with our decision. It also played into our decision that he was first-born and overall just less mature. Our youngest is way more mature than our first at the equivalent age.[/quote] You cannot compare maturity like that and you are being unreasonable with your expectations if your older child started school later than your younger one. Maybe your youngest isn't as mature as they were held back a year and their "peers" are younger and kids tend to behave as others do so their example is of a much younger child vs. a true peer.[/quote]
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