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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Who cares what you do but call it what it is. If your kids are grown you are not a SAHM. You just don’t work.[/quote]

I think raising children and running household is hard work and after two decades of it, a retirement is as okay as anyone else retiring after some other sort of work. If you can afford it, all the power to you. If you can afford it, live a little before aging limits or end you.[/quote]

No, then I become a stay at home wife. Yes, there won’t be as much to do but there is still work to be done. And like others have said, after raising children for two decades, don’t I deserve a break/ retirement as well? After all. I am on duty 24/7, 7 days a week, no vacations. I have taken exactly 7 nights away from my family in the last 16 years. One weekend away with a friend, and a few nights here and there with my parents. I deserve a break at the end of this just as much as anyone else! [/quote]

You just sound like you badly managed your “work” life balance. There is no honor in that.[/quote]

The honor is in being there for her children and raising them herself.  :wink: What's the use of having a so-called "work life balance" when you are neglecting your children?? Her honor is in knowing that her kids felt secure and happy because they did not have to book an appointment to see their mom.[/quote]

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