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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You only live once. That’s why I have my wife who wants sex once a month and a coworker who is willing to have sex anytime I want. She is also married so we both have the same liability if we get caught. It’s been working out for 2 years now since it’s just sex and nothing more. [/quote]

So, tell us about all of the emotional work you're doing to spark the co-worker's interest in you. I've been informed that women don't want to have sex unless there is an emotional connection, they feel safe, etc. [/quote]

[b]Fun lunches. 
Puns in emails.
Smiles and attention
Ask How she doing? Back and forth convo on it.
Ideas and recommendations for things she might like to do in the area.[/b]

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Would if you end up really falling for her?
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You could also do this stuff with the wife and it would greatly improve your odds.[/quote]

NP, this is exactly the problem with a unilateral dance. Men flirt, charm, engage if the return is sexual response. If it's not, the incentive and motivation to do so is zero. When they find a woman who responds, the cheating starts.[/quote]

you're forgetting about their other responsibilities that one of those women has: A house to take care of, children, two working parents, two sets of elderly parents, the school/sports/EC/vacation schedule, and friends.

the "falling for her woman" has no responsibilities tied to her. Just kissing her @$$ responsibility in exchange for getting one's ego (or more!) stroked. [/quote]

All of those things are split responsibilities, are not that time consuming if you are the least bit competent, and are often self-inflicted wounds for the over-schedulers. Granted, some people have very tough situations -- extremely demanding jobs, very sick parents, kids with special needs. But for most, it should not be a crippling amount of work. If you cannot handle that and give some positive attention to your spouse, you're failing. This goes for both spouses/genders. [/quote]
Well then h the Erie is quite the high failure rate amongst husbands, if one agrees with PP.[/quote]

Yeah this poster continues to miss the glaring question of, if roles traditionally assigned to women are so easy, why do men complain about doing them?[/quote]

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