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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just remember this and if anything happens on HER side of the family, please ignore and Do Nothing.

If your family is not worth her effort then certainly do not inconvenience yourself for hers.

If she understands that your mother is precious to you then the love in marriage should enable her to understand you need her to help you.[/quote]
Her parents are dead[/quote]

And her ILs ignored her (and her kids) when she had postpartum depression. The wife’s parents are dead and her ILs have shown her they don’t care about her. Of course she doesn’t want to overextend herself to provide care in a situation like this. Especially when the OP’s plan is to overextend their family so his sister doesn’t have to lift a finger. And OP wants her to agree to do this for TWO YEARS!

No, no, no. And hell NO!

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She clearly resents the f*** out of Op's family and she is not the person who should be called on to help. We get it.  Poor, poor, poooor her.[/quote]

Say what? Where’s all this anger coming from? Why is it okay for this woman’s daughter to say “I can’t help.” But somehow the Daughter-in-law is an evil shrew for saying the same?

Project much?[/quote]

Really. The responses from that other poster, likely a troll just like op, are so over the top hateful and specific and sexist to boot that this can't be real.[/quote]

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