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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] So long as you admit there are tradeoffs also to having a SAHP, then yes, in every situation and family choice there are tradeoffs.[/quote] ^^This.[/quote] Honest question. Let's say mom had a high powered high earning career and gave it up to SAH. Has her own means. Married for a long time (more than 15 years) and loves being a caregiver/ homemaker/has her own interests like sports and volunteering- What exactly is the downside?[/quote] What if dad does morning routine... And the mom is home when the kids get off the bench ... What is the downside? It's too varied to answer.... If the mom was a pediatric serge on with a specialty that other don't have, the loss would be that children die, new doctors don't learn as well, if her H dies she can't support the family, if her H becomes disabled she can't support the family, she get depressed because she thought she would like it.... Or the world is perfect and nothing goes wrong. Just like a wOH parent, maybe there is no downside.[/quote]
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