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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Then why did you marry her, you dumbass??  If she is low desire, and that is SOOOOO IMPORTANT to you, you should have cleared that shit up before you got married?  You probably made the mistake of thinking you could demand sex and guilt her into fucking you every day.  Too bad for you you were wrong. Tough shit, I have no sympathy.[/quote]

Wow you always this offensive? I did not attack you.
She was not LD when we got together nor early in the marriage.  I'd never have married her for the reasons you mention. 
But after 2 kids and a big house, well she gradually loses all sexual desire. (Before you ask: I am ridiculously fit and have been my whole life)
I have no sympathy for me either now. I give fully to her, and I expect a normal sexlife.  what was your point again? Aside from personal attack and wrong assumptions ?
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It's not a normal sex life.  Perhaps you have been watching too much porn.  A normal sex life has ebbs and flows.  If she is as low drive as you say there are things to win her back- give her footrubs, make foreplay something that lasts all day.  Take her out to dinner, draw her a bath, do small things to make her feel appreciated.

But I'm sure you will shoot all these down and say either youve done everything (which is bullshit) or that you shouldn't have to.  What you dont realize that your whiny, "poor me" attitude is such a turnoff- to me, the other women on this thread, and i'm sure to your poor wife.[/quote]

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