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See, here's another problem- you see it as "YOUR needs".  It's me me me me all the time.  You should be considering her needs as equally important to yours, since you're married.  She has sexual needs too, believe it or not.  And if she's not looking to you to satisfy them then you a rent providing her with something.  Or she's too stressed out.  Either way, a mature person looks at how THEY contribute to a problem instead of childishly trying to act like it's all the other person. [/quote]

Yes I do see a sexual relationship as MY need. She is low desire, by her own admission. She would be satisfied with sex once every 2 months. Again she has told me this. I do consider her needs equal to mine, and that is why I do my fair share to meet the combined needs of our entire household. And on a regular basis, I need a sexual release with my life partner. If she's consistently [i]too stressed[/i] for that, well then I do not intend to live a celibate life, nor will I endlessly meet the needs of a spouse who ignores mine.[/quote]

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