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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There is a difference to deny a need because other needs are more pressing and denying a need because you are being a passive aggressive bitch.  What is so hard to understand about that?  (and to clarify, YOU are the passive aggressive bitch in this scenario!)[/quote]

I never expect my needs to always be FIRST, but when my needs are always LAST well then I can't be happy like that long term.
Basic prioritization aside, to consistently deny is always wrong. And this thread is about consistent refusal to meet an important need, based on one spouse deciding that other needs are ALWAYS more important.

Sorry, I do not follow that program.
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See, here's another problem- you see it as "YOUR needs".  It's me me me me all the time.  You should be considering her needs as equally important to yours, since you're married.  She has sexual needs too, believe it or not.  And if she's not looking to you to satisfy them then you a rent providing her with something.  Or she's too stressed out.  Either way, a mature person looks at how THEY contribute to a problem instead of childishly trying to act like it's all the other person. [/quote]

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