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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This thread has left me so frustrated and annoyed, and not with the "slut-shamers". I'm annoyed with the people here who are willfully blind to the fact that your sexual history, whether you're a man or a woman, says something about. YES, IT DOES. The only reason why your sexual history doesn't come to bite you in the ass later on is because there's no official record of it, unlike say you college transcript. Do your academic grades say something about your mind, your habits and your values? YES. Does your sexual history say something about your mind, your habits, and your values? YES. I hate that people blindly advocate the freedom to practice casual sex and "have as high a number as you want" and act as if the only thing to worry about is STDs. [b]Sex has an emotional and spiritual force. [/b][b]People who are callous with it when they don't know what they're doing - like, for example, teenagers - are damaged when they misuse it.[/b] This is not me trying to prove some evil religious agenda (I'm not religious). This is [i]reality[/i]. And when we live in a society where women have the power to choose, where women are biologically the decision-makers when it comes to whether sex is going to happen or not, then yes, her choice matters. Like it or not, we do not live in a matriarchal island society where girls chase boys and rack up conquests. We live in a society that has for centuries conditioned men to hunt and it's created a society where women have the power to choose and BECAUSE they have the power to choose, their perceived selectivity becomes important. Hate on me all you want for calling it like it is. Despite your dearest hopes, I am not sexist. [/quote] This is not true for everyone. [/quote]
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