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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] [quote=Anonymous]"Ferguson, MO is on my mind, and that burning coal of fear I carry with me has been fanned into a roaring fire -- again. I am angry, weepy, weary, sad and very afraid deep in my core. I do not scare easily. But, this continued killing of young Black men scares me. I have two sons. One was born the color of coffee with too much cream. Usually, by the end of summer, both him and his sister are a beautiful bronzed, caramel shade. My boy has a killer smile and a soft huge heart. And, my grandson looks like him. Baby Drew is ambiguously brown; his chubby cheeks and dimpled thighs are a molten mocha shade that comes from having a "Mixed" family tree. I have had the "How To Behave WHEN (not if) You Are Pulled Over By The Police" conversation with my son one too many times. "Keep your hands visible on the steering wheel at 10 and 2". Say "Yes Sir" and "No Sir". ASK before you reach for the registration that is in the glove-box. Etc. Etc. Each time he listened to me. He knows the drill. That does not lessen my fear. I have been afraid for him, for as long as I have been his mother. Now Mama Carol is afraid for Baby Drew too. The burning coal of fear I carry within me has once again been fanned into a roaring fire. The tragedy and horror that engulfed the short lives of Darius Simmons, Trayvon Martin, Emmitt Till, Jordan Davis, Michael Dunn and so many more young men of color ... physically hurts me. I feel battered and bruised. But ...somehow that hurt and fear have not eclipsed the other fire I carry within me. The twin flames of Faith and Hope still burn brightly inside me. They have not gone out. But … Dear Ones, they are dimmer today. Today, both are dimmer. -Carol Thomas Cissel, Interim Minister, TUS - The Unitarian Society of East Brunswick, NJ"[/quote] I just had to address this bit of police bashing, race baiting drivel here. 1) Every (responsible) parent teaches their child what to do WHEN the cops pull them over (ps. White people get pulled over too). 2) She implies that she is afraid that her sons and grandsons wi be shot by police, hence the whole "this is what you do if you get pulled over bit, but then lists a bunch of young black men and boys who were not killed by police (all the while implying the opposite). And not only were those young men not killed by police, the last one: Michael Dunn, is actually the white killer of a young black man, not a murdered black youth. 3) [b]This woman's energy would be much better spent worrying about much more likely threats to her black sons and grandsons. She may want to worry that they will drop out of school (48% of black men) or be arrested by the age of 23 (49% of black men) or spend time in prison (16% of black men) or, worst of all, be one of the 93% of black murder victims killed by another black person.[/b] By contrast, there are about 42 million black men in America and police kill about 100 of them per year. With an average life span of 75 years, a black man has a 0.0002% chance of being killed by police (someone check my math on that as it could be off by a couple thousands of a percent or so). [/quote] +1 TRUTH![/quote]
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