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[quote=Anonymous]On page 21 and I can't wait any longer to reply or I'll forget what I want to say.

LD wife here.  Afraid until I read that your LO is 4 months that you were my DH.  I think there are actually some good ideas lost in the mounds of crap responses that you've gotten but here are my two cents.

--Chores and childcare won't help.  It's a cliche and doesn't work for me.    
--Opportunity is important.  DH is a nightowl and likes to stay up long after I've gone to bed.  I also think he's protecting himself from repeated rejection so it burns me up when I'm actually thinking about being in the mood and he's downstairs in front of the computer.  
--Be good at sex.  My DH isn't.  Oh sure, I can take care of business and come every time, but that's because I know what I'm doing.  Sorry to say but I can do it better without him.  You say that your wife is "satisfied" every time but does she really actually truly enjoy it?   
--Try a lot of touch and kissing without the pressure of sex.  Nice shoulder rubs in the kitchen, kisses on the neck just because.  All of those intimate, flirty things outside of the bedroom make her feel beautiful.

But thank you for your post.  It has reminded me that I do need to make more of an effort with my husband.  It may take a cocktail to get me to loosen up but I really do love my husband and want to be a better partner.  I hope you have luck with yours as well.  [/quote]

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