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[quote=Anonymous]Am I the only one who thinks this whole "ld" "hd" thing is a little weird? Not the actual situations, but people wanting to give themselves those titles as if it were a sexual orientation?

To me it seems like desire waxes and wanes and is relative. A mature couple truly in love will find a way to meet in the middle so that nobody always feels deprived, and nobody always feels pressured. Mature people figure out a way.

I am not referring here to extreme situations, where a spouse decides never to have sex again. That is obviously a serious problem, and I don't think it actually has anything to do (often) with physical desire, but rather emotions. Bet you anything that supposed "ld" partner could get it up for a hot stranger. Or is gay.  But the op's situation does not seem to describe this sort of extreme.

Anyway, thanking my lucky stars for my very sexual dh who has been incredibly understanding about my disappearing sex drive 4 months postpartum and struggling with ppd. Think I am gonna go give him a hand job. (See how that works?)

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