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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You would immediately fire a nanny who behaved like this. That should tell you all you need to know about using MiL as a caregiver in the future. [/quote] The solution is for OP to spend more time caring for her own child instead of relying on her MIL. [/quote] Or hire competent caregivers. MIL clearly isn’t up to it.[/quote] Or OP. The kid has behavioral issues. [/quote] Even OP is scared of her kid. Puts the shoes near him but not on him. Wonder why.[/quote] Because OP is smart enough to know her kid will put them on himself when he sees mom is really leaving. This is the kind of approach often recommended to parents to avoid daily battles with children to get ready.[/quote] Hilarious. You have never met a strong willed kid. [/quote] +1. I tried this with my DS at the same age and he just watched me pull out of the driveway from a window. [/quote] I can see it. Also that kid won't "learn the lesson" and put his shoes on next time either. These kids are dead set on getting their way and won't back down for anything.[/quote] My kid 2 yr old refused to get into the car one day. Stood outside the house crying and throwing a tantrum. I thought if I got in the car, he'd come to me. Nope. Some kids are really really stubborn. TBF, I'm also very very stubborn.[/quote] You got in the car and did what? Got right out again? [/quote] well, yes, I got out after like 10sec or whatever it was. DS is 19 now, in college. He's a great kid, super smart (merit aid, went to a magnet program) but still pretty stubborn. Takes after mom :wink: And guess what, I did swat him a couple of times on the bottom. My other DC is not as stubborn and did what they were told fairly easily. But, they rebelled in other ways. [/quote]
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