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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My cousin had tutors for her DD all throughtout MS/HS -- the girl is smart but fully admits the tutors are how she got by.  The parents also made sure she had the "right" extracurriculars (summer internships at friends jobs, a "charity" she started when she was too young to have thought of the idea.)  She just got into a great university.  So yes, there's definitely truth to the fact that parents involvement help.  (And, they'll get her tutors throughout college too so it's not like it's going to catch up with her).[/quote]

As someone who tutored in high school, I can't imagine anything worse for my kids than to have to get through high school and college with tutors. Maybe your kid just isn't that smart. So why use tutors to try to inflate their learning for a period of time, only to then take away their assistance? It's like saying "my kid was swimming by 8 months" when in reality your kid had floaters on and then couldn't handle being without them when they were 4, by which time other kids, who took the time at a more appropriate age to learn how to swim, were actually swimming better. Not a perfect analogy, and maybe I've just been lucky to have kids who have always been above grade-level in all subjects, but to me, tutors are for kids who are struggling. If your kid isn't smart enough to take linear algebra in high school, then math probably isn't the career path for them. Why would you force it on them? It sounds miserable to me.[/quote]

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