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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I made Xmas breakfast for the family, and a full Xmas dinner. Not a thank you from dh. Not a “yum, that was good” Not an offer to clean a plate or wipe a table. I’m not saying I need a medal, but I feel like the help. Hell, a paid chef would’ve probably gotten a thank you and compliments. It makes me feel very sad to feel so unseen and unappreciated by my spouse. [/quote] My response to this would somewhat differ depending on whether you're SAHM or not. If you both work, his lack of appreciation and offer to help is appalling. If not, he should certainly extend appreciation but there might be an issue of expectations there (ie all domestic chores your domain) and you should simply use your words and ask for help with an out-of-the-ordinary burden he took for granted. [/quote] Yea, we both work. And I make more money.[/quote]
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