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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]You are right I misinterpreted but my suggestions are still the same. Writing here is always optional. And should be respectful. Keyboard warrior is not a term I came up with myself. It's a pretty common term for people who spend their time bickering online.
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Are you not bickering online?[/quote]

I don't have time for this sorry. My husband abandoned me and the kids for his crazy sex life and was a dud for the last five years probably because he was engaged elsewhere. He wasn't into married life as you can see since he abandoned it. I am afraid of online dating with men who want prettier women and just want to use me for sex and give me a disease or worse have some physical confrontation. Maybe I'd be ok later in life with being a nurse but not at this time. I like sex but could go the rest of my life without it. I have my kids. I have enough money for the rest of my life. I'm happy to debate but am not upset. I don't feel like keyboard warrior was being overly disrespectful and if you do I'd think there's a guy that needs to be treated with kid gloves. Good luck with your online dating.[/quote]

You are wise not to date because you are psychologically broken. You really need to work on yourself and get out of the mindset that men are generally evil, which is the product of the abuse you suffered at the hands of your husband. My mom had exactly the same issue - fear and suspicion of men after divorcing an abusive cheater - and unfortunately she has never gotten over it.[/quote]

The men in my neigborhood are lovely. And I mean outstanding. The've taken my kids under their wing. They are friendly and competent. My entire family also wonderful. There are just duds out there and I will never date again someone I feel unsafe with. [/quote]

I should add also someone who I need for something whether it's money or sex or anything else. I don't need to spend another year of my life with a dud that doesn't love me in return and doesn't have anything to contribute to the relationship. I mean if he gets cancer and becomes a dud but loves me, I'm ok with that and would even put up with some abuse the last year of their life. I can be a nurse and was for a year with my ex. I will not be with someone that doesn't have any interest in connecting or loving or is abusive or dishonest.[/quote]

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