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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was already on the fence about adoption because of the experiences of some adoptees who are close to me, but after reading this thread and learning more, I am feeling adamantly opposed to it. I hope there will be big changes.

It's unbelievable that adoption still widely enjoys a good reputation, of providing a better life, etc, when it is actually so sordid, corrupt and toxic.[/quote]
I don’t understand your point of view. Do you think the alternative of foster care is better? Because that’s what happens when the adoption option is gone. You think that’s better for the kids?[/quote]

The alternative to adoption of healthy infants is not FOSTER CARE.  It is healthy infants being raised by their own families.  With proper access to health care and abortion.l care, no woman should be forced to be pregnant if she doesn’t want to be.  That is a fixable problem. [b] Women who do want to parent their infants should receive the support, health care, day care, and financial assistance to launch them into healthy parenthood.[/b]

It is NOT an outdated concept that most women relinquish their healthy infants because they are poor.  That is the #1 reason by far.  It is coercive and predatory to take children from people in poverty, brainwashing the mothers into believing that letting go of their babies is the only way they can truly love them.  [/quote]

[b]Newsflash, we have all those things.  [/b]And, yet, some women, still don't want to parent.  What you are saying is  we should force mothers to parent regardless of the situation?  That is abusive in and of itself.  And, not everyone qualifies for those supports if they don't have the right documentation.[/quote]

What? In what dreamworld do you live in?

We have none of those things. Zero.

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