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[quote=Anonymous]Regardless how "most men" value a woman's looks vs. her career, to me who cares what "most men" think or do anyway? I know that for me, I'd never have any interest in dating anyone who had zero interest or value on what my interests were. Careers can either be because it's the job I make my paycheck in but I don't love it, OR it could be my chosen career because I love my job or at least find it interesting. So while I would want anyone I date to be interested in my job and what I do, it's more important to me that overall they be interested in what my interests are. Similarly, I don't only care about what a guy does for work or only care about what he looks like, I care about the whole package: is he interesting? Smart? Funny? Kind? Hot? What does he do for work, and why does he do it? So the whole original question doesn't work for me, because even if "most men" don't care about a woman's career, any guy I'm gonna date seriously has to care what I do and why I do it. What does conversation look like with a guy who's got zero interest in what you do all day? I know what it looks like, I've met a few of those guys, and that was the last conversation we had most likely if it was all about them and only either what I look like or what I want to do with them.[/quote]
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