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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My spouse’s old ugly middle aged non-working AP is in crisis mode deleting all of her social media accounts and internet presence.  I love she’s freaking out.

I had all of that info downloaded and saved before confronting her on internet phone call.

I have a lot of “fun” in store for her over the next year.

She is a repeat Ashley Madison whore.  Multiple affairs in her husband’s bed/kids’ home.  Never thought she would get caught.[/quote]

This seems like a waste of energy to me. But it ain’t my life. *shrug*[/quote]

Hell No.  It sounds fun and like victory to mentally torment and destroy the marriage of somebody that helped ruin your life, and your kids as well.  They destroy both the past and the future of the cheated spouse.

Karma will most likely take care of them both and they have to live with themselves on their death beds,  but until karma kicks in gotta give a little yourself.

If more cheated on spouses did this Ashley Madison would start losing customers.[/quote]

The sick part was my spouse and I had a very healthy sex life- several times per week-while he was screwing her unprotected so I was getting all of her germs for 4 years unknowingly and her husband was getting my husband’s.  And, that poor guy had to sleep in the bed they screwed in.  Not even washing the sheets after.  Nasty [/quote]Something tells me this all kind of turns you on in a perverse sort of way.[/quote]

NP but I agree. Weird energy in these BURN THEM AT THE STAKE!!!!!! STITCH A SCARLET “S” INTO THEIR FOREHEADS!!! posts. My life is too full and busy to waste my time meting out supposed punishment to two cheating losers. [/quote]Yeah, I get that she's all angry and bitter but it's taking a tone that is kind of creepy in how obsessed she is with the OW, her ex, and their bodily fluids.[/quote]

And how does she know sheets weren't washed? That plus as the AP I'd be worried about getting the PP's germs. I know mental illness isn't catchy, but ...[/quote]

Ha.  Most likely.  A whore that has sex in her husband's bed for YEARS with Internet strangers probably gets a sick thrill sleeping in those sheets.  Is she really doing laundry/changing the full bed linens/sheets multiple times per week?

And, my god, I am with this woman.  Sloppy seconds after he screws a dirty whore unprotected and then comes home to f*ck her to (shower or not) is absolutely repulsive.[/quote]

[b]That poster needs to tell the other husband, and simply move on. [/b]She should completely stop obsessing, and never talk to her ex again. Being happy will be the best revenge. If they have kids do neutral exchanges away from the home.  I mean totally 86 him. Yes you can with kids. [/quote]

Agree.  I think that is the closure she needs.  Making sure AP is held accountable in her own marriage and letting husband know what his wife is doing to him and his kids.[/quote]

Some people need to get it out of their system. A little amount of pay back or justice is certainly acceptable. When I was cheated on by a live in boyfriend I got the AP fired. Got justice then swiftly moved forward.  Karma certainly comes around at some point to rotten people. One of my in-laws was left by her husband after 30 years and 3 kids. He cheated with a old gf that was getting a divorce. She actually stalked him from another state, and was looking for another life raft.  He took the bait, it was the ugliest 3 year divorce I've ever seen.  She ended up with the house, and he had to pay alimony for 5 years. He didn't see any of that coming.  He didn't have much in retirement but she did take less on that.  The house appreciated quite a bit as this was in 2000. He literally had to start over at age 53.  Well AP didn't have anything because she was bankrupt. Both owed divorce lawyers, and 5 years later the AP died from some heart valve thing.   He ended up broke and 2 kids never talked to him after the divorce. He wasn't even invited to their wedding.  How he allowed a outsider scammer to take everything away is beyond me.  Yet you see enough of these idiots, or they cheat get caught and cry like babies in divorce court. Yet it was all predictable.[/quote]

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