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The story is really, really, really sad.  She snuck out freshman year to go to a party with some older friends down the street who went to a different HS - think very rich part of town too so assumed safe.  They went to the party and she was roofied (spelling?).  She remembers pieces of it, but there were multiple boys that she didn't know + other very bad things (not posting bc explicit).   She woke up in her backyard and luckily snuck back in.  A month later she didn't get her period, so she took a pregnancy test which was positive.  She then slit her wrists rather than tell her parents that she had snuck out, was gang raped, and was pregnant.  Her mom found her thankfully.  I wish she had been allowed to get an abortion, but her parents just couldn't consent to that because of their religious beliefs.   It is one of the reasons that I donate regularly to PP so that girls can have that option.  Her parents/her also decided not to prosecute bc she didn't want it all public from my understanding.

To this day, she does not drink and carries a bottle of water in her purse bc she doesn't trust beverages she hasn't seen poured herself - she has a bit of PTSD I think - this includes a soda from a restaurant brought from the kitchen - she won't drink it.   She is scared to be alone and mainly I think has a nanny for her kids so she isn't alone ever.  She follows all rules in life - I bet you she has never sped while driving her car.  She made one mistake in her life and people think she deserves to relive it.

I shared her story because I do hope all those people who wish the "hidden adoption" to come out think about why there may be other reasons for someone not wanting it to come out.  I do worry that she will commit suicide if it does come out.  Okay I've got to go just give her a call and tell her that I love her. [/quote]

Wow. Depressingly, I know someone else who has almost the same story ( even down to it happening in Georgia) except it happened to her in the late 90s. [/quote]

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