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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would love to have a second but I just feel that 41 is too old.  Maybe not now but I bet I'll really feel it in my mid-50s.  To those who have the life experience, what are your thoughts?[/quote]

Sneak it in now, if you can. I haven't read through all of these angry pages, so I don't know hold old your other(s) is/are.

I had my first at 38yo, and had to pair him up with a sibling. My second came at 40yo. She arrived 20 days before my divorce was final, a gift to myself and her brother. There's a completeness to my life that I wouldn't have had without her joining us.

I don't see a way around effort. Life is rich with reward, and hardship. Am I tired? You betcha! Is there any escaping that? I have my beautiful, delightful, loving, clever little darlings to see me through.

My advice to myself (and for you) is to take good care of yourself. Sleep, nutrition, spirit. Enjoy the chaos. Be clear on your priorities.

I'm 44 now, and cannot see myself starting out. If this were your first, I'd encourage you to move on. You seem prepared to do just that if a pregnancy doesn't come easily. Whatever happens, I hope you find peace.
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