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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Let’s say your kid has to go to the er..do they make you show a birth certificate or some other proof that you’re the legal guardian? Or crossing the border into Canada? Seems like it would be a lot easier for everyone if you had the same last name.[/quote]
Yes crossing into Canada may be an issue. I had remarried and had a different last name from my teen kid. I had to take their birth certificate (showing I was the mom), my marriage license showing my current last name, all our regular ID, my divorce decree showing I had custodial rights, and I had to get a notarized letter from my ex approving the trip. Usually he would have forced me to court to get it, but since our kid was old enough to see what was up, he gave it to me.

He later took our kid to Canada and sailed right through the border with just their IDs, no notarized letter from me or divorce decree showing he had visitation rights. I'm sure many cross into Canada with far less, even if they are married and have the same last name as their kid, but it did put some stress on me having to show the progression of my last name changing since the birth certificate, as well as the custody papers.[/quote]

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