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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I haven't read this entire thread. But if the presumption is that there are objections to some wealthy 54 year old man who takes good care of himself and is extremely successful as an actor/director/producer who happens to find a younger woman as a partner, the delusions are strong here. Where is the 54 year old woman who adds value to Justin Theroux's life? There are lots of very interesting women in their 30s and 40s. What is a 54 year old women bringing here? Maybe with a little serendipity and charm they can click. But generally, not happening. [/quote] I agree with this and also I think he wanted kids, which made a 54 year old woman not an option. It's hard to adopt at that age. Yes it's unfair that men have this option and women don't, but it's biology. It's not something Justin did. We know he and Aniston spent several years trying to have a baby and were not able to. For all we know, the reason their split was so amicable is because Jen decided she could make peace with not having kids and Justin couldn't, and they may have decided to split specifically so they could each pursue their divergent goals -- Jen to focus on her career and friendships and enjoy her life without kids, Justin to look for a partner to have kids with. Yes it's sad in some ways, but it seems like everyone involved is being an adult about it and Jen has even expressed that she is happy for him. All's well that ends well. People here just want drama. They want this to be a betrayal of Aniston (even though by all accounts their relationship ended amicably), they want Nicole to be a gold digger, they want the baby to have been something she tricked him into, they want them to break up, etc. Alternatively these are just people trying to have good lives, like anyone else.[/quote] I never bought that Jen Aniston and him wanted kids. people with money can have kids. I am not sure why people don’t understand this -.if they didn’t want to adopt they could get donor eggs. It’s not at all hard if you have money. Nicole herself said this wasn’t planned. You just can’t convince me that he wanted kids and she didn’t baby trap him. I don’t think it’s unfair or that men have an advantage. We all get the same amount of time to be in our 20s and 30s whether we are male or female. Justin being with a younger woman doesn’t make him any younger. And his plastic surgery just screams that. He’s going to be an old dad and that sucks. It’s sad for the kid. It’s sad for him and it’s sad for Nicole. But hey, it’s not my life.[/quote] Jen has said that they didn't consider adoption or donor eggs because, for her, she wanted a biological child or none at all. She didn't speak to Justin's preference, but she said that when, after IVF, it was clear she was not going to be able to conceive a child herself, she decided it wasn't meant to be. It wasn't about money or lack of resources, obviously. I don't think Nicole "baby trapped" Justin. They were already married when she got pregnant. You can't argue someone trapped their spouse who willingly chose to marry them. If, at 54, Justin doesn't want kids, there are things he could do to prevent ever having them. He's clearly smitten with the baby -- if anything I suspect that Nicole was surprised about the pregnancy because the timing for her career is not ideal. But that doesn't matter for Justin. I don't get the sense he's unhappy about this at all.[/quote] If you want to believe they went through IVF together, that’s your choice. I don’t think we’re are in a society where Americas sweetheart Jen Aniston could come out and say she just didn’t want kids. I think she did try with Brad and I think she did maybe explore some options after, but if she wanted a kid, she’d have kids and if Justin really wanted to be a dad before the ripe old age of mid 50s he would. Justin and Jen never even really lived on the same coast. They were both obsessed with their individual dogs. They never even legally married there’s no documentation. I don’t think their whole relationship was PR but I definitely think they both gained a lot from it. She was tired of being Brad’s ex, and the jilted woman who was left behind and couldn’t have kids when he went on to have six kids. I think she just wanted to flip the narrative. I’m sure they actually did love each other and were together, but I don’t think they were ever in it long term and I definitely don’t think they tried for kids. But they both greatly benefited from “Justin and Jen decorating the nursery!” type of headlines. At some point, I think men like Justin want to keep dating younger women and eventually one of them wants to have kids so they do. But no I don’t think that Justin actively wanted kids. That doesn’t mean that he doesn’t love the baby. But I don’t think they’re going to last as a couple for very long and I think he’s going to be the fun every other weekend Dad. [/quote]
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