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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Go into counseling OP, you are too emotional right now to think  clearly  and to make decisions. I wouldn't make a recommendation  with regard to splitting up your new family without a lot of time and education first. [b]You are just mad and that isn't a reason to leave this now. There’s a hundred reasons why this happened  and it's  not really about deception[/b], the way you are making it sound like. There's a lot missing here, and you need to do the work for your  baby now. Good luck, dear. [/quote]
1) being mad about your man lying to you and infecting you with a lifelong disease is 100% enough reason to leave. 
2) it's deception at BEST[/quote]
Sorry, he didn't  lie. He didn't understand his results  at first. He never presented.  He did  understand  later and told  her, albiet late, but they already had sex, already became pregnant, so what  would  have  changed. I mean he's  clearly upset about it, this isn't something intentional. He was just naive. So was she, so come on. [/quote]
Do you know what a lie is? He has two positive tests and didn't tell her, and you want to say he wasn't lying? Of course he lied. Sure he did tell her, eventually. But he knew. For 4 years. And then again in jan 2025. And then he had unprotected sex with her (sexual assault). And then he got her pregnant. And then he proposed. And then he told her. I can't think of any way he could be a bigger fu[i]c[/i]king liar. [/quote]

Thank you. I’m not sure why someone is telling me that he didn’t lie. His apologetic text messages prove otherwise…[/quote]

And are you a completely perfect person who has never lied? As far as I can tell the only “lying” was the (short) period where he knew he had the test result and didn’t tell you. Taking a while to discuss something difficult (especially because he probably knew you were going to blow it out of proportion) doesn’t exactly mean the person is a monster. I am sticking with my interpretation that this relationship had serious issues and was going to fall apart for one reason or another. There are good reasons to just pull the bandaid off and coparent 50-50 from the start but most women would make a lot of effort not to lose any custody of their baby. I don’t think you quite get the ramifications here. [/quote]
Lying about having McDonald’s for dinner yesterday or lying about giving your partner an STD are pretty f***ing different. Stop trying to downplay lying about your std status! I’m going to start reporting your posts as trolls bc this is getting out of hand. [/quote]

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