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[quote=Anonymous]I’m still amazed by how many women on this thread are denying that these Type A taskmasters, wannabes, and followers exist! I’m guessing the deniers are (1) not super-introspective and (2) don’t read a lot, otherwise they would know there are entire genreS of fiction devoted to these archetypes.

In all honesty I like these types of groups. I’m not cool/rich/pretty enough to be targeted or be right in the middle but if I get included in the periphery I’m happy to go along for the ride. My messy ND self can’t handle more/better social planning so I join with enthusiasm lol. I don’t care about the gossip so I zone out and don’t engage. Similarly happy to hear any tips or resources since I’m always overwhelmed—take what works and leave what doesn’t.

But everyone upthread is right, they’re not my real friends, and I don’t feel intrinsically threatened in any way because my values, background and lifestyle are different to the average in this type of group. The description of the “introverted loner woman” who does 1:1 friendships better is kind of a bummer, but thats basically me.[/quote]

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