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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Every big city has people like this, because they gravitate toward big cities. [/quote]

Specifically, people like this gravitate toward big cities after college graduation, because this is where they will have a better likelihood of meeting a spouse and also hone their type-A personality at work (Regardless of where they continue to work long-term). What the big city they go to is depends a little on interests, college, and where they are from originally, but every major US city (New York, Chicago, DC, SF, LA, Dallas, etc.) will all draw these types.

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I don’t think OP’s topic is high achieving women.

I can’t tell if it’s something else about 
(A) mentally unstable women with tons of time and desire  to manipulative groups of whatever and give advice or orders, or 
(B) if any woman in charge of managing something simply offends Op no matter what. [/quote]

I  think it's A. These women are insecure and anxious. They think that all their value lies in how much they can accomplish, and so they are always on the go. They are sensitive to rejection of any kind and will try to make anyone who rejects them feel what they are feeling. [/quote]

This. The key descriptors here are: Type A, manipulative, controlling. There aren't that many people like this in the world but DC does seem to have more than typical, and it only take one in a workplace or friend group to wreak havoc. Yes, you can lay low and avoid them and focus on other people or just stick to yourself, but even doing that takes effort and it might inhibit other, pleasurable activities. Like if you have a manager like this, there are things you can do to survive and deal until you change jobs (or she does), but if she wasn't there you might just have a nice work environment.

But yes, these people have mental illness and their coping methods involve externalizing it onto the people around them.[/quote]

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