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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Dear LD Spouses,

Of course we HD spouses love you less.  You won't make the effort for us.  You reject us.  And we know that if the roles were reversed you would never put up with this bull.  We know that you know we won't leave you because of the children.  How could we maintain the love when the lack of intimacy makes the relationship all about duty?

I am a woman.[/quote]

Another woman here, and you are spot on.[/quote]

Well, I am the LD woman, and luckily my husband doesn't feel this way.  I've asked.  I'll just go ahead and assume he's a better person than you and thank my lucky stars.[/quote]

Go ahead and assume he's a better person, I really don't care. I'm not interested in living in a marriage that's a sexual wasteland to get brownie points for being good and patient.  The more we talk, the more I realize that I should have married a man who is also HD.[/quote]

+1000, Fellow Sexless Wife.  LDers, Think of it this way.  Do you love your brother or sister in the same way you love DH or DW?  When the sexual aspect diminishes DH or DW becomes like a sibling.[/quote]

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