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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I hope the posters calling AP a whore aren’t staying with their disgusting husbands.

OP doesn’t sound concerned, she just wanted revenge on the AP. Great, now both AP and her DH are free to be in a legit relationship.[/quote]

[b]Two cheating whores deserve one another. Scumbags.[/b] [/quote]

The better way to see this: two suffering people, dying emotionally in their marriages to disappointing partners. They see each other across a crowded room and fall in love, liberating each other from unhappiness.

Sometimes the moral choice is to explore the feelings, to have the affair. When the spouse underachieves so much and weighs you down, they have silently given you permission to look around for a better option.

When you find that better option, the moral thing to do is to jump so that your kids can finally see what a loving marriage between two sane, not crazy, successful people looks like.[/quote]

This. All of this. I feel seen. [/quote]

I know of a case where a person had 7 kids with first husband and then decided they were "dying emotionally" and found a better option.  Had an affair baby which eventually resulted in the breakup of both cheaters' marriages and their eventual marriage to each other.

Also another person who cheated with a coworker and even made his wife go to dinner with him and the coworker while the secret affair was going on.  That sounds pretty emotionally dead to me.  But not in an exculpatory way.

Both ex-husbands are in financial difficulty now.

The kids are not impressed with the sanity of the parents.[/quote]

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