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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Women have got to stop shaming other women for staying. This leads to a vicious cycle where people don't talk about infidelity, which means that we don't understand how common it is for long marriages to experience it. This ignorance of how many people face it (with a good number of them overcoming it) leads to more shaming, etc.

Once you've been cheated on, you're making your least bad choice out of bad choices. You need empathy and space to make the best decision for you. I'm a PP who shared on here that I asked both my best friend and my sister if they thought I was being crazy to stay. People who know and support me said no, my husband was still a good man and they thought we could do it.

This is a free internet forum and the advice varies greatly in worth, or lack thereof. [/quote]

The women who get shamed for staying are the ones who are focusing their rage not at their spouses, but on the other woman. Holding a total stranger to a standard of behavior not met by someone you’re sleeping with isn’t rational. If you keep the husband you have to leave the AP alone. [/quote]

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