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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP this thread is long but that's basically my husband too. I think you've got to be a tiny bit aspie to have found him in in the first place. And [b]I think marriage is a lot about kindness and tolerance.[/b] Just keep moving forward. [/quote]

Yes but with the AS/NT relationship the AS is not giving. They don’t know what to do when, and get unkind when asked or told or questioned or taught. 
If the AS is kind, the marriage may last. If the AS is unkind, on top of other chronic symptoms, the relationship will cease.

The Nt is the only one doing nay tolerating and accommodating and twisting into a pretzel and walking on eggshells. [/quote]

I can’t believe Jeff is still letting this discriminatory nonsense continued to be posted.

If you have an “ASD Husband” and hate him so much GET DIVORCED. Stop acting helpless and looking for other people and diagnoses to blame. [/quote]

People need help.  Let them ask.  You do not have to read this or any thread. If you have nothing constructive to add, you can move on. [/quote]

Nah, I will be here on every “ASD Husband” thread until the stupid Internet trend of armchair diagnosing your estranged husband with autism is over.

I have no problem with thoughtful posts about actually autistic people. I have a huge problem with people like PP attributing every bad behavior under the sun to autism and claiming that everyone with autism is the same, evil person. [/quote]

#ExampleOfAutism
#fixation
#Black&WhiteThinking
#OppositionalDisorder
#MaladaptiveCoping[/quote]

Yes that’s right - autism is an insult, and everyone who disagrees with you has autism. Thanks for making that clear![/quote]

#DoublingDown
#MoreRigidity
#ExhibitA[/quote]

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