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Reply to "Holding my boundary. Let him be mad."
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[quote=Anonymous]OP, if you split you will still be carrying your insurance and keeping your household afloat, no? I can see being angry at your husband, but I think there is more to it for it to be so intense. Explore that on your own or splitting will just be Version 2.0 of the misery you have now, as you fear. And you can't control him staying, you really do seem to have contempt for him and that is one of the 4 horsemen of divorce per the Gottman folks. Takes 2 to marry but 1 to divorce. Gottman therapy has a decent track record, might be worth exploring that together but take a look at your anger on your own. Usually it is a more surface high energy emotion covering more vulnerable feelings. All that cortisol not only tanks your QOL but it's hard on the body and brain too. You deserve better but just cutting DH loose is not going to get you there. Wishing you and your family peace, OP. [/quote]
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