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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why do these discussions always operate on the premise that women have all the options and some schmuck is lucky one picked him?[/quote] Because think of the people you know who are single at 40 - there are plenty of higher caliber women single at 40 than men. The men still single at 40 all seem to be losers.[/quote] Everyone I know who got to their 40's, whether male or female, and is still single has at least one personality or character flaw that explains why they never married. Being divorced is one thing. Never married? If I found myself back in the dating pool again, I would avoid never-married women. [/quote] That's such a blanket statement. I'm late 30s/female and never married because my fiance died in an accident. In a relationship but will leave him.[/quote] You have to acknowledge that your situation is very abnormal and most people unmarried by late 30s have serious problems in either the mental department or the looks department[/quote] The only “serious problem” I have is that I enjoy my own company more than I’ve ever enjoyed being in a relationship. I’m certainly not going to marry someone just to placate a bunch of random people online. [/quote] That is a serious problem sweetie, it's called malignant narcissism [/quote] WTF. Why on earth do you think romantic relationships are important enough that it's better to be in a bad one than not one at all? Do you have childhood trauma or something? -NP, and I'm married. [/quote] I think when someone "enjoys their own company" more than anyone they have ever met, that person has a few issues [/quote] You are being deliberately obtuse. She prefers her own company to a bad boyfriend. She doesn’t say she has no close friendships or other relationships. This is another thing some people can’t fathom: many women have deep friendships that meet many of the same emotional needs men get from marriage. I am happily married but also have female friends that provide incredible support and happiness. I am very close to my sister and bother as well. If my husband died or left me, I would be very surprised if I was interested in dating at all, and I certainly wouldn’t need financial support from a man. (Mid 50s). [/quote]
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