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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP - what you are feeling right now is not how you will feel forever.  I promise you things are so so so different (and mostly better) once you are fully an adult.

[b]I am an earlier poster where I said one of the sever sisters might be good for you.[/b]  I really meant that - and listen when I say - they will welcome you later in life too.  You don’t need to rush into anything.

Not all places are like Columbia - I promise you.  But I also don’t feel “lesser” than just bc I didn’t do Ivy.  I am now much more successful than many, many Ivy grads.

You have no idea how much better things can be and you don’t need Columbia.  I promise.[/quote]

I just know reading this comment that PP is a white woman oblivious to her privilege.

OP, do NOT pay attention to this comment at all. First, it's highly unlikely a Seven Sisters will accept you, and second, even if you are accepted, you'll probably have to take out more loans than if you stayed at Columbia.

But more importantly -- and I'm speaking as a middle-class Asian woman to OP (another middle-class Asian woman) -- woman from our demographic are GREATLY ENHANCED by the Ivy pedigree. From my experiences in the workplace, having an Ivy undergrad helps us IMMENSELY. You will get MUCH further in your career if you have a BA from Columbia than if you had a BA from a place like Smith; anyone who denies this is simply gaslighting the professional experiences of most middle-class Asian-American women.

OP, you MUST stay at Columbia no matter what. You ABSOLUTELY HAVE to graduate from there, or else you'll deeply regret leaving for the rest of your life. DO WHATEVER IT TAKES TO GRADUATE FROM THERE!

Also OP, you should really try to appreciate being at Columbia more. It's a great school -- one that 99% of Americans would kill to get into. You need to be more grateful for what you have (which will help abet your suicidality). Besides, if you think undergrad at Columbia in a (frankly, easy) major is hard, then imagine your life after graduation. The working world (and being an adult in general) is MUCH, MUCH harder than being in college. Enjoy what you have now, because your life will get harder after graduation. [/quote]

I’m PP and maybe I am white. But you’re a sociopath.

People will need survive to enjoy the prestige right?  K. well, life is a little more complicated than Columbia>Smith. [/quote]

Principally yea, I am another Asian PP. An white woman can go to George Mason, take a year off in between, and still find a comfortable job ranging from office manager to project manager where she receives plenty of mentorship and gets treated with kindness.
If she is attractive and polished, she will get promoted or recruited every 2-3 years. 
For the Asian women, she will do all the dirty work the org dumps on her, and gets pushed out when the project is done.
When things are going well, she feels included in the team.
When things go south, she will be the first one under the bus.
Ivy will elevate 90% of possibility of this. It’s hard to see it today, but do BA in basket waiving if you have to.

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