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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I didn’t read all the comments but am chiming as a 36 year old mother of 4 with a objectively hot, dancer/actress nanny who is late twenties and a very sexual husband.

She is a great nanny to our kids and they love her. I’m sure my husband looks at her amazing butt from time to time, but I trust him 100% and wouldn’t have had all these kids with him or hiring a younger hot nanny if I didn’t trust him.

Also, if the tables were turned it would be totally normal for my besties and I to mention the hot lawn guy or pool boy or whatever to each other. I don’t see the issue in this as long as there is no action or much disrespectful talk. We are humans, we have eyes!

Just my opinion but I am confident in my sex life and my intuition. [/quote]
Well, when I was 36 y.o. I was mother of 1, after years of IF treatments and miscarriages. At that point I'd spent several years with the majority of time being pregnant or on hormone shots that swelled and bruised my body. So, excuse me if me, and people like me aren't as confident in our bodies as a 36 y.o. mother of 4.

I actually wouldn't have a problem with a hot, dancer/actress nanny. Our nanny of 7 years now was 24 when we hired her and is not unattractive (but also not a dancer/actress). But, yeah, when I finally had my first kid I wasn't a paragon of confidence...and I suspect that I was actually on the above average end of the confidence curve for someone in my situation.

So instead of chiming in about how crappy some women's relationships must be if they lack your level of confidence, maybe show some compassion that not everyone feels like you. I honestly can't imagine anything less tasteful than bragging about how confident you are. Either it means you aren't really confident and so need to put others down...or it means you are a sociopath who likes putting others down.[/quote]

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