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[quote=Anonymous]A recent Dear Prudence had a letter like this, except it was from the bio mother who had been tracked down despite a closed adoption. She didn't want to hurt the girl who had found her, but the pregnancy had been the result of her brother sexually abusing her, and when her suicide attempt failed, her parents blamed and abandoned her. While she had gone on to become a successful and ok adult, she had no wish to remember her past and did not want to burden the child with the only information she would have been able to share - that she was the product of incest and would have been aborted had the bio mom had any say in the matter. Sometimes Pandora's box should really stay closed.[/quote]
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