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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your sister's curiosity is understandable but she is dead wrong. Trying to find and contact her birth mother is one thing, but contacting the woman's family is a violation on so many levels it boggles my mind.[/quote]

“The woman’s family” is her family also.[/quote]

Sharing DNA doesn't make them family. The adoptee's family are the people who raised her. [/quote]

It does when it pertains to medical history. She could be suceptible to any number of medical illnesses and not know it with no blood relations to confer with. [/quote]

I don't know why people keep saying this. Even in closed adoptions, medical history is provided as a background as part of that process. Just as there are new technologies people are using to find people that are related by blood, there are also new advances in genetic testing that provide for medical screenings. This argument is smoke and mirrors.

Nowhere in OPs post is she suggesting that her sister is stalking people because she really needs her medical history.

And frankly, this whole thread is disturbing. You champion for women's rights and individual's right to privacy and also champion for the great cause of not aborting but rather giving life and providing blessings to those that can't have kids and now birth moms who want to continue to keep her private life private are horrible and selfish and liars?

If anyone comes to this thread perhaps thinking of their own options, they would run to an abortion clinic.[/quote]

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