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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why don't use just change him by the side of the pool or in the hallway then?[/quote] Because they don't want to inconvenience themselves. They would far rather do things their way even if it means violating a rule and causing others discomfort and upset. I have no problem with you not sending your child in the men's room. If he is over the posted age, however, then bring him home wet, change him with a towel around him, get a speedo coat, meant to provide warmth when cold and in a wet suit, etc. [/quote] Or, no, because it is ridiculous that places make rules but provide no other accommodations like family changing rooms, and maybe in the summer your idea works but hell no am I taking my kid outside, wet, in winter, even with a special coat. It has nothing to do with inconvenience. It has EVERYTHING to do with the fact that if you have an issue with a young child changing with his mom and not being left alone with strange men, YOU ARE A PERVERT.[/quote] YOU are an entitled ass! Perhaps the solution is to find a way to make the men's locker room safe for kids to change in. Perhaps you should seek to have the rules and laws in place actually enforced. Perhaps the solution to your problem is not bucking the rules that you don't like, and disregarding the comfort of the people the room was actually intended for. But you can't think past your own damn nose. [/quote] And you're an effing bitch who shouldn't be allowed in public without a handler anyway. I will gladly use a family changing room if one is available. If one isn't, tough shit. YOU are entitled to go to the car wet and change at home if you're bothered. Seriously though, if a 5 year old minding his business and changing is so concerning to you, you should seriously seek therapy. That is not normal AT ALL.[/quote] Your logic is laughable. Who is the ladies room for? Why in the hell should I be the one to forgo using it? Idiot. [/quote] Women, and by default their young children who can't be left alone. It's common everywhere. If you have an issue, you should take it up with management and ask them to put in family changing rooms. In the meantime, I'll keep bringing my kids in, and your pervy ass can huff and puff all you want, but there isn't a damn thing you can do. Management isn't going to die on that hill. [/quote] I take pity on you, going through life in such fear of pervs around every corner, expecting the world to bend to your crazy fears and needs. Your kids are going to be seriously fucked up in so many ways. You're probably one of those who loves to rag on millennial. That generation you're raising is going to be 10 times worse. [/quote]
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