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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think most people aren't talking about bullying at all anymore, but about the environment once the college pressures get extreme.  The school apparently isn't good at helping the girls deal with the pressure cooker atmosphere.

Here is the takeaway I've gotten from this thread.  There are mean girls everywhere.  There is academic pressure everywhere.  But other schools are not solely occupied by perfectionist girls with overachieving parents. They need more support at school than they get from the uncaring administration.[/quote]

+1  Bingo.

Its not about bullying or mean girls.  Its about an environment that pits girls against each other, rather than having them support each other and an administration that doesn't care about the emotional health of the students.[/quote]

Bingo?  I wrote that first post, and I say nothing about pitting girls against each other.

I have read this thread quite attentively, and it seems to me that you - and any other person claiming to be an unhappy parent of an unhappy daughter - have unrealistic expectations of what high school is.  Intense academic pressure, which clearly affects some people more than others, is endemic at ALL top high schools.  There is no school where the kids are magically exempt from these pressures.  NCS girls do tend to be high-achieving kids of high-achieving parents, which gives another dimension to the insane pressure.  Can the school do more?  Undoubtedly.  I think it would be great for all involved if the school made it more of a priority, but it won't suddenly make all the girls not feel pressure to be academic successes.

For goodness' sake, the same complaints are made about public schools around here.  Surely I am not the only person who listened to the NPR report on this very topic yesterday morning.[/quote]

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