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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My niece got married and my daughters were the only cousins not invited in a large family because they were under 18 (ages 13 and 15). It's my husband's family so he went on his own and I stayed home with my kids (it was an out of town wedding). And no, I wasn't going to spend money on plane tickets for my daughters could sit in a hotel.

The irony was that my SIL lobbied for this niece to stand up in our wedding as a flower girl when she was 8, but suddenly kids at a wedding was a bad thing when she got married.

I never said a word to the bride about it but I found it to be very hurtful.[/quote]

Holding a grudge — decades later — against someone for her mother’s behavior?  How is this wedding in any way “sudden” if the 8 year old is now old enough to be getting married?  I get why you might have been disappointed, but to pat yourself on the back for keeping quiet with the bride — because her mother wanted something when the bride was 8 years old is kind of off, at best.  [/quote]

Impressive at how completely you missed the point.[/quote]

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