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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm cheap af, and also poor by DC standards (only $1 million in the bank and $200k income).

But the bigger problem is that I have no intention of dissipating my wealth on an over-the-hill woman. [/quote]

You have no wealth to dissipate.  [/quote]

I nearly spat out (dissipated!) my coffee. Spot on.

What kind of gold digging losers are you guys dating when all you can think about is how much the women want you for your money?

It’s not the flex you think it is.

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Right!?

This is DCUM. Everyone has 3M in liquid and 10M in the market.[/quote]

Actually I have $4M in liquid and about $18M in the market and properties but I didn’t want to brag. And the women I date have no idea of my wealth. I don’t pay their way and they don’t pay mine though we do pay for each other’s dinners and other things from time to time. When we traveled to places like Mallorca, Corfu, Palawan, St Kitts, Antarctica, etc we each pay our way and split costs for any shared expenses (rooms, etc). Works well that way.[/quote]

Yakis - a woman who may be making 200k/year paying for her dinners with you. It would be fair if you shared expenses pro-rats your wealth. Very few people would be comparable. It’s totally different from two mid 6-figures executives sharing expenses. You are cheap IMHO [/quote]

You would never know. Too many gold diggers out there.[/quote]

You can simply decline taking her to an expensive restaurant for the first date; offer a coffee/drinks. If you start seeing each other, see if she reciprocates at least gets tickets for movies/theaters. But keeping scores like you do is just sick, IMHO. Being extremely wealthy, you have your girlfriends subsidize your travel: you are a wealthy kept man/toy boy. And also bitter about women.[/quote]

Not even close. We pay 50/50 for our travel so no gf subsidy. And they don’t have a clue about my wealth so no harm no foul. If I ever got the slightest hint they were a gold digger I would end the relationship.[/quote]

So you are cheap as F. People at your wealth level would travel business class, stay at Ritz etc. You could have just offered her to pay in what’s fair and just have a nicer vacation. But instead you find average well-off women who pay 50% traveling “economy”. Either she has to invest much higher share of her income into posh travel at your level (which is unfair as you are extremely wealthy), or you basically travel middle class. You are a cheap wealthy gigolo [/quote]

PP here. Wait a just minute. Your rant is full of many assumptions. Who says we don’t travel well. We do travel well. Business class for the most part and mostly use miles as I have a lot of them from my business travel. And we stay in very nice accommodations. I’m certainly not cheap. But your biggest incorrect assumption is that I date people who make less than me or have a lower NW. Honestly, I can’t remember the last time I dated someone who presumably made less than me or had an apparent lower NW. But that wasn’t a requirement as I could care less what they make or their NW, but high income and NW people just happens to be the circles I hang out in socially. In fact, the 50/50 thing is better for both of us, as I don’t want them to think I’m dating them for their money and expect them to pay for everything no matter how nice it is. Don’t you feel silly now.[/quote]

Since number of eligible females with 18mm NW would be negligible, I call all you wrote BS 
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Not sure about their NW and what you say may be true but as far as income goes, it definitely exceeds mine. It’s just the circles I socialize in the women have a high income. So splitting travel and other things 50/50 is no big deal.[/quote]

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