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[quote=Anonymous][quote] Thank you for a kind response. We have been in each others lives for a very long time. There was friendship well before the affair. It’s hard to walk away but knowing that it won’t ever be what I want it to be, is devastating. Why doesn’t he spend his time talking to his wife? Why does he spend hours and hours every day looking for my advice? Sharing with me?[/quote] Better than all these questions is to figure out why you stick around for the limited part of his life he shares. Why don’t you believe that you deserve a full partner? Why are you willing to live in the shadows? Why don’t you feel guilty for being complicit in hurting other people? Why do you need validation from him? You sound so, so broken. Please get in therapy and learn to value yourself, set boundaries and develop empathy.[/quote]
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