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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]After years of trying to get my spouse to participate in a real and satisfying sex life, I outsourced.

I lived with myself by noting that I shouldn't have to lose my kids and finances, and if it ever got discovered, I am in the same place as I would be if we just divorced since we are no-fault.

Is this that hard to understand even if you don't agree with it?[/quote]

Yes! I’m actually fairly agnostic on monogamy and understand there are all sorts of marriages, but you’re definitely a scum bag. You’re keeping your wife in a marriage you’ve already left behind her back. It’s sort of incredible that you could be like this and still care about your kids but I guess biology is a wild ride. [/quote]

His wife did same by not having sex with him. Give me a break.

If you are not having sex with your spouse and not in open communication about the steps you are taking to remedy the issue, you cannot claim moral ground here. If sex is vital to a marriage then you should be having it at least once a week. If you are not interested in sex with your spouse, you sound ridiculous and selfish to then break up because they are having it elsewhere. It's either important to you or it's not.

Now the partners who are having sex and still getting cheated on do have a higher moral ground.[/quote]

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